I’d be very thankful and gracious!
Sorry to keep asking but things are getting hectic here and we are barely able to keep food and our medicine steady at this point and could use some donations, we are so thankful for any help we get and all the support.
Please donate by going here and signal boost, any donation count, thank you.
snoworland is his sfw tumblr
kreatednotmade is his nsfw tumblr — huge tw for bdsm, rape, and misogyny
please reblog and/or repost, this is the best way i can think to keep him from being able to prey on more trans women.
we dated last summer from June - August (2013), at the time i called him Alek but soon after our relationship ended he started to go by Kurt again (the name he currently uses and used before moving to Atlanta). he moved to Atlanta last July and recently moved back to Tennessee. i don’t know where in Tennessee he is currently living, but I know he has previously lived in (or at least around) Knoxville and Maryville (where he attended Maryville College).
tw for emotional abuse and manipulation, gaslighting, misogyny
Kurt is a manipulative misogynist. he frequently gaslighted me in a variety of ways to undermine my confidence in myself and my ability to exercise agency in interactions with him.
-i have difficulty expressing myself and talking about my own needs and emotions, especially in stressful situations; multiple times while on the brink of tears or actually crying i tried to talk to Kurt only to have him repeatedly interrupt me and tell me that i was being irrational, illogical, that i wasn’t making any sense in order to shut down communication.
-he repeatedly insisted that i was wrong about really trivial things when i obviously wasn’t, and he refused to back down or believe me — multiple times i drove him to restaurants that i frequent in the city i live, a city he’d just moved to, and afterward he would insist that i was wrong about the names of the restaurants that i introduced him to.
-in a bizarre move, Kurt told me that he was a psychic energy sink (which i just googled and couldn’t find any instances of someone using this term the way that he did) and insisted that because i was psychically ungrounded, my frenetic energy negatively affected him because he was so grounded and sensitive to other people’s psychic energy.
tw for sexual abuse, manipulation, rape
I'm a lesbian trans woman who lives in an 850 square foot 1bed/1bath apartment in Norcross, GA with 2-3 other trans women (it varies). It’s kinda cozy, but we can always always always make room for more (we have air mattresses, a futon, a comfy recliner, lots of bedding, and plenty of floor space). You can stay for free as long as you need, and we typically have food around that you can help yourself to. We don’t have internet right now, but there are places with free wifi within a mile of the apartment.
TRANSIT: We’re right near a bus that stops at Doraville MARTA station. I also go into the city once or twice a week when school’s in, and can provide rides inasmuch as my schedule permits it.
ACCESSIBILITY: We’re on the first floor, but there’s a three-step, fairly steep flight of stairs up to the apartment.
RULES: (1) Trans women only, no exceptions (though if you are not a trans woman and you need a place to crash, I might be able to help you find one. feel free to contact me anyway). (2) No recreational drugs or alcohol please, exceptions can be made if need be, but this is important. (3) No men allowed over, no exceptions.
Yesterday afternoon, while walking home, my girlfriend Jordan was mugged. She’s not seriously injured, but she was physically assaulted. Her backpack with her phone, ID, bank card, keys and hormones was stolen. She also lost her job a few days ago.
She’s trying to raise $300 to replace everything that was stolen. If your would like to make a donation, her paypal is firstname.lastname@example.org
Please signal boost.
I don’t like asking for help, but until I find a new job I have no chance of replacing most of what was stolen from me. Being without a phone also makes looking for work harder, so the sooner I can replace it, the better.
Thank you to those who have donated and boosted so far. I really appreciate your help <3<3<3